4 Mart 2010 Perşembe

Marrying a perfect man

What will you do if you fall in love with a man who grew up in another country ?When you think this,at first,it sounds good.You will see another culture,life style,religion,language.Already you love this man.However,are you ready to share all your life with him ?Can you get used to his differences?
These differences can cause a lot of problems.First of all,you have to express yourself easily to your husband.Before marrying,surely, you would say "he is my perfect man" then after you must think the same thing forever.That's why ,you will share your opinions,interestings,wishes...If you do not say all of these in your native language,it can not be effective as good as you wish.No matter how fluently you speak his language,it can not the same.I think,language is the first problem.Second problem is life style.You must get used to a new culture.All countries have their own morals.Something you think bad can be normal for your husband.You can not find very odd,because he used to and he will do it in the same way.You can't cope with it.Some peole say that the most important thing is love.I don't think so.Because you do not have the same language,culture,the love is useless.you must have shared your past.Of course,it is not necessary that they are exactly similar,but it must not be totally different.
If you want to marry a man,you must be careful.You will be together as you die.Before dying,you can say that "i shared all my life,love and past with my perfect man"...

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